he cheated (flirting 3months, invited her home, according to him never had "sex") . I forgave him w/ condition of having access to phone, iPad, house keys, get therapy and a promise ring he would not lose my time ad eventually have a future. After getting back, he gets PISSED if i refer anything to him cheating because it was my choice to give him a chance. So he changed his mind abt having access to his email, phone, didn't get me the ring until 2 months later prob to shut me up and just swiped his credit card and never told me anything special, gave me keys to his house (we are 2 hrs apart/long dist.), he did sign up to therapy which he hasn't gone yet and at first he'd send pics of where he was and now he refuses to. Says if he was me, he'd never get back w/ me (which makes me feel stupid for taking him back), and says he is over me bringing it up. He is putting conditions, when it should be me. Says he flirted because he's a man and felt good but was never going to do more, and if I'm going to stay i better get over it. I'd get over things quicker if he didn't have such a bad attitude and he swears I don't leave him because I'm scared and says he steps all over me because I don't respect myself. Now, I don't know if my love for him is much bigger or what? But I hate him more for his attitude than for his cheating. The man continues to make traveling plans with me, but i feel like I'm going no where. Anyone have this experience?
Added (1). he's 30 and been together for almost 3yrs
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