My boyfriend and i have had our fair share of problems, but a few problems are unsolved and are getting worse. About a few months into the relationship, i noticed that i started getting hacked. This has never happened before. It only started when dating him. A few months later, i started to notice that a lot of my clothes and personal belongings would go missing out of nowhere. I would ask him and he would say he doesnt know where the stuff went, but the thing is, the clothes that started missing are the clothes that he doesnt like me to wear, which is kinda suspisious. As time passed, i still kept getting hacked, and the hacker would post information that only my boyfriend knows. Not even my family knew this stuff. I am living with him due to family problems. Just to reiterate, as these months passed, i was getting hacked. I get hacked at least one a month. I have changed passwords and emails, and nothing. A few months after stuff went missing, i started talking to an old male friend of mine. The first day i started talking to him, the convo got hacked. As i was speaking to him, someone hacked me and said that i had a boyfriend, and again, said personal stuff that only my boyfriend knows. My ipad has also gotten, hacked, and it has a password. I leave my ipad at home. I dont give him any reason not to trust me. It seems that when we get into an argument is when i get hacked. Not all the time, but 90% of it. What should i do? Are there any lie detector tests i can do?
Added (1). We have been together for 2 years. I have never cheated on him. Yesterday morning, we got into an argument, and he said "you did this to yourself" or something around those lines. This morning, I found that my ipad charging port was broken. He knows I use that thing like crazy. When we were on the phone the morning of the argument, he kept asking me where my ipad was, and he looked everywhere for it. I had to lie and tell him that I took it with me, but he found it in my dresser.
Added (2). I asked him about the ipad and he told me he didnt do it, and that he would fix it. This is really upsetting me. Its like my head knows its him, but my heart doesnt want to believe it. He treats me very well. He says he trusts me. I want to do a lie detector test, but I dont know where i can do that for this kind of situation. I dont want to leave him because I dont have any proof that its him. I dont want to leave, and it ends up not being him. He makes me happy, except for this situation.
Added (3). Its driving me insane. Insane im telling you. For the past 2 years, Ive been getting hacked non stop, all my pictures were deleted from facebook, and before i put a password on my ipad, all my cat pictures would go missing out of no where. He hates my cats, I don't know why, and he believes that I love them more than him. I LOVE my cats, they are like my children. They dont live with me, they live with my mom.
Added (4). Now that i have put a password on my stuff, things have calmed down, but they are still going on. Please, I need help. I don't know what to do. All this stuff points to him, but I don't have any evidence that its him.
Added (5). Oh, and also, there was one day where I kept getting hacked on instagram, and when I put 2 pictures up, they got deleted right after, so I went to the kitchen to see what my boyfriend was doing, and immediately after I asked him what he was doing, he turned around and had someones phone behind his back. I asked him to show me, and he said no. He said he was "surprising" me, then he said it was his moms phone, and that he was putting an app on her phone. He came up with multiple stories.
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