Monday, September 24, 2012

How to find out if he cheated?

Right, i really should go to a friend or councillor about this but at the moment i am just desperate for some advice from as many people i can.

My partner and i are very happy. We live together and talk about having a family soon. We have the odd bicker and argument here and there but always sit down and talk about it and sort things out. Last week he went away for the whole week for work. We spoke every day in texts and phone calls. When he returned he explained to me that at the restaurants and hotel he and his work partner stayed at there were girls working there who flirted. The sick part was that my partner was on the phone to me in the lobby and after getting off the phone the receptionist discreetly offered him a one night stand. Now, he apparently told her to do one and walked off. I don't know if hes saying that because it is what i want to here.My partner is a very friendly guy. I doubt he would have been that rude. I was on his ipad today at home using the internet when a page full of PORN history showed up and my stomach dropped. He had sworn to me in the eye that he didnt look at porn OR sleep with anyone. The fact he has lied about this makes me feel he may be lying about other things. I am going to sit down with him tonight and get it all out and give him the chance to say everything. Or i feel like leaving. I just need some serious advice.
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