I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I am 22 and he is 24.
He has hurt me recently. We are both attractive and we tend to get unwanted attention from the opposite sex (which becomes a head ache).
He instigates though…
He went to his home town a few months ago and the same day he left me for the airport with the new IPad I had bought for his b'day he:
1) Stalked 2 ex gf's and from his home town (paris) on FB.
2) Stalked a girl he seemed attracted to over here in Oz (17 times) on FB.
3) Contacted a girl who lives in Paris and is attracted to him for a coffee, when I had asked him to stop talking to her months earlier (due to her interfering our relationship and talking badly about me).
I became sick and he didn't feel the need to contact me as much or send me flowers while I was in hospital.
4) He then became friends with 3 new girls that he met out clubbing and contacted then more than me :(
5) He then asked for a break!
6) A "friend" of mine suggests she will pick him up at the airport (who met him through me). I discuss to both that it's very odd and disrespectful that they planned this without me. Both think I'm exxagerating and end up fighting with me.
7) When he arrives he ends up going to the "friends" b'day party.At this point he hasn't contacted me since he has arrived (10 days). I was uninvited to that "friends" b'day party.
We have sat down and discussed everything over and over again. He says that he can see how immature and disrespectful he was to me and wants to make things work. He asked for another chance, I've given him that but I can't help but feel torn. I don't understand why he did all that and why he wants me now?
>>> Should I work it out? Or leave him?