My wife and I were sitting next to each other on the bed. She was playing her game on her Ipad while watching a TV show, while was on my computer browsing Youtube videos with my headphones on (one ear open to hear if she was trying to talk to me).
A scene came on the TV show, and she asked me what the medical condition was being referenced. I did not answer her, but proceeded to do the research to get the information. I forgot to inform her what I found because I tabbed back to my previous page and continued to do what I was doing.
When she later asked me "You did not answer me, did you?" I said yes I did not answer you, but I forgot to get back to you when I found the information. I told her I got carried away with what I was doing, and that I was not even paying attention to her show, I only paid attention when she asked me to. I tried to tell her why I did not answer her, but she does not want to hear an excuse, she expected me to tell her what information i received. Of course I was disconnected from the conversation, because I was not entirely there, I was still in the middle of what I was doing, when she asked me about it.
She is tired of communicating with me. I tried to appologize and explain to her the information she wanted. I tried to ask what I can do to prevent this in the future. She told me no second chances, and left the room when I proceeded to try and comfort her. She thinks I always ignore her, but when she is on her Ipad, she sometimes ignores me, and I never get upset over that, because I know she is busy. I do not understand why she won't extend the same courtesy to me, and just let me atleast get to a stopping point. I do not even know how to explain myself to her anymore, because she is looking for a specific answer.
I lied to her our entire relationship, we are married now and I am making a positive change in my habit, to improve our relationship. She told me, she does not believe anything I say, There are no second chances, there is nothing I can do. I am paying for my mistakes 2 years later. She won't let go of the past, even though I am trying to change, yes I still have little spouts of the bad guy in me, but I am sick of fighting, and lying, I want to be good. I don't know what to do. She left the house in the middle of the night, and she said tomorrow she is going drinking and clubbing all day and won't come home.
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