I will be married to my husband 30 years on the 17th of this month. We have had our ups and downs like all marriages. He was married before but that marriage only lasted 2 years. He cheated on his wife with me. He promised me that it would never happen to us that he was totally in love with me. We just became grandparents in February and since that time his moods are constantly changing. He calls me names and makes me feel like I am worthless. I have gained weight over the years after our son was born but that is due to medications I have to be on. The medications have put the weight on me but he says that I need to lose weight. He has gained weight as well but I say nothing to him about his weight I never call him names or belittle him in anyway. June 30th is the last time we have been intimate not for my lack of trying but he says he is always tired or is not in the mood. When he goes to work he eats lunch out everyday when I pack my lunch. He says it easier for him to buy lunch. When he does buy lunch he always gets extra cash out and says that way he has extra money and he uses that cash to get his lunches. I cannot check on him or go to his work because I work all day as well.At home he is always on his computer, Ipad or cell phone and he is really secretative about who is talking to. When I get on my computer, Ipad or cell phone he is always asking me what I am doing. I always tell him and then he does not believe me. He has been watching his weight and even going to the extent of coloring his mustache in with an eyebrow pencil to cover the gray.
I am almost certain that he is cheating, however sometimes I feel like maybe I am too paranoid. Can anyone please give me some advice. Please nothing sarcastic.
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