Heaven forbid I get a job, I've had one a while now, and before I had one it was always "We're too tired to do anything this weekend, we work and you have no idea what that's like…" Then I get a job and I'm usually working some time on weekends, and now it seems like my mom always suddenly has things planned when I'm working, then says "too bad" and they leave while I stay at the house to watch the dogs and work…
Last time we saw family was maybe Christmas, (its May now), and all of a sudden yesterday I come home from work around 8pm to find everyone gone. Text my mom, get a reply maybe an hour later, saying they went to see family and they'll be coming home late…
Find out the this morning when I see the truck, they used a boat and took it out yesterday… Then same thing today, come home at 7pm and everyone's gone, send another text but don't get a reply… Later they come home and I have to ask in person, and they went to see the same family again who I still haven't seen…
I'm 18, have mom, step dad and sister at the house. I stopped going to my dads bc he got a girlfriend and made a life with her and forgot about us…
Why doesn't my family care about me being around anymore?
Trust me, I know them, they are the sit on couch and play on ipads all night family, so it's very rare that we even go out, but now all of a sudden (it's happened several times not just this time), they want to go out all of the time and not mention a thing to me…
Added (1). My sister's 15, no job, so they just like taking her out more since she doesn't have to work?
I asked her where they went today and she just ignored me and shrugged her shoulder… Apparently there were newborn puppies at the family's house too that they went to go play with…
Added (2). I have asked her this before, her answer was "It's not my fault you're not working a Mon-Fri 8-4 schedule…" And just tells me to get a better job if I wanna do things with them on weekends…
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